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AuDHD

Parent Toolkit

A toolkit for the contradictions of AuDHD — where autism's need for predictability meets ADHD's hunger for novelty.

11 of 11 terms

Bottom-Up Processing

Building understanding from sensory details upward rather than concept-down. AuDHD brains often notice everything before the big picture.

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Dopamine Seeking

Pursuing novelty, intensity or interest to feel engaged. The ADHD half of the brain demands stimulation; the autistic half wants predictability.

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Inertia

Stuck between activities — can't start, can't stop. Not laziness; the brain is genuinely struggling to switch state.

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Interest-Based Nervous System

Engages with what's interesting, novel or urgent rather than important. AuDHD attention isn't broken — it's wired differently.

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Masking + Camouflaging

Hiding autistic traits AND ADHD traits in different ways across the day. Doubly exhausting; doubly invisible.

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Monotropic Burnout

Crashing after intense hyperfocus on a special interest, with no spare bandwidth for daily demands.

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Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)

An anxiety-driven, autonomy-protective response to any perceived demand. Common in AuDHD profiles.

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Polyvagal States

Ventral (safe), sympathetic (fight/flight) and dorsal (freeze/shutdown). AuDHD nervous systems flip between these faster and harder.

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Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria

Intense emotional pain from real or perceived rejection, criticism or failure. Common in ADHD and often amplified in AuDHD.

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Sensory Seeking + Avoiding

Seeking some inputs (loud music, spinning) while avoiding others (clothing tags, certain smells) — sometimes within the same minute.

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Spoon Theory

A way to talk about limited daily energy. AuDHD kids start with fewer spoons and burn them faster than peers.

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